Of course MySpace is going to acquire a few enemies here and there. It’s possible and expected. Yet, if you are going to hate MySpace, please have some valid reasons…
Social Media is something I’m passionate about and love. The idea of forming your own communication, vocalizing your views, and showing your true colors is very intriguing. However, some people don’t share the same passion, which is okay, its not for everyone.
AC The People’s Media Company, posted their top 8 reasons why they hate MySpace. You can read up on their article, although, I have to admit, most of the reasons are why I like MySpace, isn’t that ironic? I’ll tell you why…reason by reason (their claim is in bold, my response follows):
- You are not an HTML programmer/page takes too long to load – The complaint is that MySpace users are not tech-savy and have to rely on tools/widgets to update their MySpace. As a result, it takes too long to load a page. Let’s face it, MySpace users are not tech-savy, in fact, the majority of the users are my parent’s age! So these tools, although they might create html/css errors, it helps users customize pages to their own liking! Besides, the number 1 reason why pages take too long to load is because they are filled with loads of pictures, videos, sound clips, etc…and thats a good thing!
- Who decided 8 was the limit? – Granted this post was made a while ago, but users now can add a Top 16 list. Although, his argument wasnt the number, it was the whole idea of a Top “something.” Actually, this is kinda cool! So cool, that T-Mobile is “copying” this idea, with their Fave Five! Seems to me, people like this idea!
- Your music sucks – Sorry that my music sucks, but its a way for me to express myself and my interests. Not everyone has the same taste in music. In fact, b/c of MySpace I’ve taken a new interest in alternative rock (result from visiting my friends’ myspaces a hundred times a day). And, im completely happy…I’ve found a new genre of music to explore. Be open to others’ taste in music, and its okay to not like my music, I probably dont like yours either. (only kidding).
- Those stats aren’t you. – Some people do put bogus ages and interests, but its okay. Why? I typically only accept invitations from my friends, so I already know how old they are, religious affiliations, and their likes/dislikes. It’s only a problem if you start surfing into the realm of stranger-ville…but I don’t. Its mainly a tool I use to keep in touch with friends only…I know them already!
- Those pictures of you with a tan are a lie – Like I said, the majority of MySpace users are my parents…they have a life, they work, and their pictures are real! So what if lighting makes you look a bit more tan, its not MySpace’s problem. Geesh, pictures are pictures…and most people post pictures of themselves. Besides if you are my friend, I know what you look like, I know what pictures are real…so its not that big of a problem for the other 1% that post bogus pictures, they aren’t my friends.
- Your dad is so proud – Facebook, Flickr…all other image hosting platforms have pictures of partying…so what? If thats how you want to portray urself, go ahead, its a choice. MySpace isn’t pulling your arm! MySpace provides users with tons of freedom! Here’s to “freedom-space”
- We’re not friends – Again, MySpace gives you the opportunity to approve friend requests. Why not just approve your real friends? It’s as simple as that. Sure there’s spam, but spam is everywhere…I get tons of spam here on this blog. Just ignore it. Just keep a network of your real friends…its okay, if its only a few, hopefully it will grow some.
- You are a loser – I guess they think all MySpace users are losers! Having a MySpace is the same as having a facebook account, linkedin account, or even a webpage. Again, its a form of expression, its a way to show your creativity, show who you really are. If anything, its a way people will remember you. Your right, MySpace does live on…and thats a reason in itself to have one that documents your interests, friends, and key events in your life.
I’m not sure if their post was a joke, or if they really do hate MySpace. But I hope my short analysis has shed some light. As I said before, their top 8 reasons why they HATE MySpace is almost my top 8 reasons for LIKING MySpace. This is just to show that its not for everyone.
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